Monday, March 28, 2005

What an Easter!

The house was stuffed with people, food, tables, and chairs. It's hard to fit twenty people for a sit-down dinner in a small house! We somehow managed it, and judging from the noise, everybody had a good time.

Of course, the cab company service hasn't improved. They were supposed to pick up my grandfather at 1:30 pm. They eventually showed up around 3 pm. They were only 20 minutes late in when they came to take him home, so that could possibly be an improvement.

This year the house seemed to be full of kids. Or, more accurately, I attracted all of the kids in the house. At one point I had three little girls tagging after me, and a baby blowing raspberries whenever I looked in her direction. Erin's nephew-in-law was kept preoccupied with his toys, I only caught glimpses of him. I finally took them upstairs and pulled out a Disney Trivia game.

I was keeping them distracted while Andrew and Erin were outside, hiding eggs. It was a cold, dreary, rainy day, but they still ran around with their baskets, finding eggs, rehiding them, pointing them out for the younger ones, and laughing. I ended up with the baby on the porch while her parents helped her little brother (who had somehow ended up with two baskets.) It's been a while since we've had such a sweet, goodnatured baby in the house. She laughed, made faces, watched them running around with a puzzled look on her face, and didn't seem to mind at all that a complete stranger was holding her. (my youngest cousin was always glued to her mother, and generally cried whenever anyone even looked at her.) When they finished, I took her back inside and waited for her mother to come back to claim her. (If she didn't show up, I could always auction her off to the aunts or my mother.)

When I went back upstairs to clean up the game pieces. I found three little girls (well, one not so little, she's half my age, but taller than I am!) had spread their egg loot all over the floor and were trading and divvying things up.

After they went downstairs for dessert, I discovered that they had been up to one more thing. An Easter candy hunt - for me! I'm still finding candy tucked away in odd places.

Of course, after that my Dad starts in with my uncle about his stupid computer wireless network problem, and they trek upstairs to look at it. My uncle couldn't figure it out, either, and advised me to reset the server. I haven't done it yet. It works just fine on the other two computers! I don't want to have to spend an afternoon running around trying to remember what settings I need to change and where they're located. He's close enough to the router that he can use a CAT5 cable, and that's probably faster and more stable than wireless. Bah.

So . . . Happy Easter! Here's to chocolate eggs hidden in my room.

Wednesday, March 23, 2005

Seasonal Affective Disorder: Winter Depression

HA! I'm NOT going crazy! I knew there had to be a reason for this on again, off again misery every winter.

Great. Someone position me in a window with the other plants, please.

Tuesday, March 22, 2005

Oh, man.

I decided to dress up a touch today, because we were receiving a Town Resolution this evening for work's 15th anniversary. A nice new blazer (pink) a knee-length skirt (mauvy) and some ivory heels, pantyhose, a little makeup, a bit of jewelry, a neck scarf - nothing TOO fancy, right? Maybe the scarf was a bit much, but it matched perfectly.

You would have thought I normally showed up at work every day in grubby jeans and an old torn t-shirt I'd slept in. EVERYONE made a big fuss. Even people I barely knew. It was rather embarassing.

However, I'd been doing a bit of research on what I should wear, and had picked each piece rather carefully based on fit and color. I'm thinking it worked.

I'm also thinking I need to do this more often.

Sunday, March 20, 2005

Mom and I got into a discussion regarding the previous topic, making me realize once again that I'm cold and heartless. She told me that the doctors had told them that my grandfather wasn't able to eat, and NOT to feed him. They did anyway. He survived, quite well. She also told me a few other stories about people in similar situations, some of whom had overcome and were able to rejoin the world. They remembered everything that went on, understood everything, but were unable to respond. Like being gagged and tied up.

Of course, I don't feel that the US government needs to get involved in this, although it will be interesting to see what they do. I"m not sure about the legalities involved, but why doesn't the husband simply give power of attorney to the parents and wash his hands of the situation? He wants out, fine, but let people who still have hope try to help her.

This is why I try not to pass my opinion on anything before I learn all the facts. I had gotten the impression that she was in a more vegetative state. She's not! Terri's Fight.org It's somewhat comforting to see that this has happened to other people besides my grandfather.

In any case, no life support for me!

Friday, March 18, 2005

Florida Woman's Feeding Tube Removed

I've been keeping my eye on this story for some time. Partly because it's a new issue caused by advances in medical technology, and partly because what happened to the woman is EXACTLY what happened to my grandfather.

Modern medicine is a wonderful thing, but where do you draw the line at keeping someone alive? And for how long? At what cost? It's a VERY sensitive subject. I've been in nursing homes, where people of various ages and various degrees of health spend their last days. Often, the medications they're on is the only thing keeping them alive. Many are barely aware of what's going on around them. A hundred years ago, they would have died, probably soon after becoming ill, with some dignity, not at a ripe old age, but not young, either. They would have been buried with ceremony, and mourned by family and friends. Now, they decline slowly, packed off to unfamiliar places by their own descendants who are too busy to care for them or think about them, rarely have visitors, and wait for death to overcome their medicine. Yes, I know what you're thinking. But every time I've gone in one, it's like being in Death's Waiting Room. What a wonderful way to spend your last days after a long and fruitful life!

My grandfather, being in the same situation as the Florida woman, wound up in a nursing home. (the same one my great aunt DeeDee was in.) After a few problems and some close calls, and him in a nearly vegetative state, my grandmother threw up her hands and said, "Forget it! I'm taking him home!" Home he came, with all the fuss and equipment and legalities and insurance issues and expenses that go along with anyone that's ever been ill. Within three months she had him off the feeding tube and eating. He's responsive, alert, and still maintains some motor skills, though they're still unable to get him to stand on his own. It's a HARD life, and it takes four families and the State to support them. It's so very difficult to watch someone you've known and loved all your life in this condition. My younger cousins don't remember him as he used to be. We show them videos and tell them stories, but it just isn't the same. He also knows there's something wrong with him, and he finds it very frustrating. Then he yells, or refuses to cooperate with us, and things get a little more difficult for a bit.

My thoughts go out to this Florida family. Not easy, but if nothing has changed for her in so many years, I greatly doubt she will ever improve.

If I haven't stated it before, I'll state it now. If I'm incapable of making any decisions concerning my living or dying, for goodness sake, I'd rather die!

Thursday, March 17, 2005

The Leprechaun Watch | The webcam

Happy Saint Patrick's Day! Have ye got any green beer? (if you do, you'll probably be able to see the skeaghshee in that webcam)

Wednesday, March 16, 2005

I went to the new art and framing store in Sterling and finally found the right size picture frame I need for an old Herndon map I have. The only problem: It was the wrong color. I looked close at it and realized it was wood and just painted black, so I bought it anyway. Brought it home, sanded it down and restained it with my infamous can of neverending orangewood stain. Such a difference! It looks wonderful with the yellowed background of the map, and it matches my desk and my tool chest and the dresser. I haven't gotten around to hanging it yet, but right now it's leaning against the wall behind my Tolkien books, on top of the dresser. Looks good there, too. I want to put some antique postcards or some such photos of Herndon to go with it, in another frame. Maybe 3? It depends on what I Find.

It dawned on me the other day that the style that I wanted for my room was Art Nouveau. Boy, did I miss.

Saturday, March 12, 2005

DONE DONE DONE FINISHED THROUGH COMPLETED DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!

*cougH*

Yay! I never thought I'd see the end of Unit 5. I suspect decorator's blocks are dangerous things. Fortunately, I discovered a VERY nice upholstery shop up in Cascades.

Hopefully the instructor won't make a lot of changes. One more assignment to go!

Specialty Fonts index

Have I blogged this before? I still like them. :-)

Friday, March 11, 2005

Fontcraft's Scriptorium Fonts and Graphic Arts

Found this site while chasing down an idea for a web site redesign. I like fonts. I don't need to use them, I just like looking at them!

Thursday, March 10, 2005


Tuesday, March 08, 2005

Braved the nasty, foggy, windy, snowy storm this morning to go to the orthodontist. I'm not sure which was worse. I got yet another different thingy in my mouth, this time designed to move the roots. She called one a bend, and spent a few painful moments bending it. (I have yet to find out what she did or where she did it.) My rubber powerchains are now only on my back teeth. On my front teeth, I have a kind of wire powerchain, all twisted together. My teeth look funny, I guess I got so used to that big black rubber band that I forgot what they looked like. Whatever their technical names are, they seem to be working, because my teeth are killing me. Slowly, torturing, mocking.

Thank you, Advil.

On a side note, Mom and I ran into our inspiration piece (FINALLY!) and I am nearly finished with Unit 5 of my interior decorating course. I've already done the lessons for Unit 6, so after I mail these out I can start working on the last assignment - the presentation board.

Always finish what you start.

Monday, March 07, 2005

The Postal Store - Muppet Stamps

These are pretty cool. I may have to buy them when they come out. Fortunately I hardly ever mail anything anymore - I can keep them!

Pretentious Items of the Day at:Original Bookworks Products

Interesting idea, and fun to look at, but I'd still rather have the real books. There's just something so sad about having fake books on your shelfs. In the future will we have fake TVs? Fake computers adorning our offices? Fake sports cars in our garages? To me, it says, "Look! I have lots of fine books! I'm rich! Just not in actual knowledge, because there's nothing to be learned from these!"

Now, hollow books, I don't have a problem with. I like hollow books. At least, so long as it wasn't one I wanted to read. Better yet, I like boxes that are made to actually LOOK like books, and was never an actual book in the first place.

Wednesday, March 02, 2005


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